Counting Pulses

About Me

I'm Kay, I live in London and I LOVE all things Korean - food, history, language, music and film.

신화, Drunken Tiger, Epik High, 이준기, 주지훈, Teddy Park, 성시경

Western music: Lisa Gerrard, Sarah McLachlan, Heather Nova and any other artist who sings with their heart on their sleeve

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1. hmmmm…..

   Well, I definitely think he is interested, which is a boost to my confidence. But the big no no no is that he is married with two kids. I had read before that Japanese men don’t think twice of having a mistress as well as a wife, though the book i read it in was about 20 years old so I wasn’t sure if that still held true. Maybe it does, maybe its just him, who knows. 

   For me, aside from defending rights and equality, the most basic feeling I have of feminism and for that matter just being a human being with a conscience is to treat other women as I would my sister. That includes not taking part in a betrayal by their partners or friends.

   I’m not going to lie and say that I don’t still find him attractive, nor deny that getting involved is tempting, but its just something that’s not going to happen.I know that it won’t change the world, but somewhere out there is a wife and two sons who will not be hurt by my own selfish wishes. They might never know I haven’t hurt them, but I know I have not and I sincerely believe that what goes around comes around, that situations like this are sent to test and mature me into the person I want to be.